Dec 30, 2008

ladies and gentlemen try to read this..hope it will help you in dealing with your relationship..



What a girl needs most is love. What a guy needs

most is respect. The most important thing for a girl

is her heart. For a guy its his ego.

Give your man his own time and space. Let him

have his time for his friends, sports, family, self,

and God. The relationship will grow old quickly if

lagi kayong magkasama . Give him time to miss

you and you'll see how he will love you more. If the

guy naman is obsessed and just wants to be with

you all the time, tell him you cant respect

a "puppy" for long.



Do things differently anytime. Para kahit matagal

na kayo, there is always something fresh and new.

Variety is the spice of life. Exciting baga?




Discover something you both like to do and enjoy

it TWOgether. Doon naman sa mga bagay na

magkaiba ang hilig nyo, compliment each other by

learning about it kahit konti. If you love someone,

yung effort nyo to try will go a looooong way to

understanding him later pag may disagreement

kayo.




Pray with holding hands. Sounds corny noh?

Maybe, but its very powerful. Pag may takot sa

Diyos ang boyfriend mo, kampante ka na di ka nya

lolokohin, because he knows God sees everything

he does in secret. Ikaw na ang magkusa that

before you part after a date, with hold hands and

eyes closed, pray to God to bless you two. Believe

me it's effective.



Kailanman, di corny ang magdasal.




Believe in "Magic" (magic ka dyan? Hehe..). Kahit di minsan practical o

walang logical na dahilan, o matrabaho, o sounds

crazy sa iba, do sweet little things (dapat talaga ito!!!) for the one you

love kahit magmukha ka ng timang. The memories

will be fun to recall later in life. The corniest song

o gift o letter ang laging kabog!




True love brings out the best in each other. Find

something good in your boyfriend and nurture it,

encourage it and syempre, ENJOY it.






It's healthy to fight (oo naman). Doon nyo lang maaayos ang

mga differences nyo at natetest ang tatag ng

relationship. Doon mo rin sya makikilala ng

mabuti. Its called test of fire. Di mahalaga how

dalas you fight. What matters is how often you

make bati.




Mas nakakatakot yung relasyong sobrang perfect

at laging masaya. One big fight and that's it! And

diba mas kilig yung malambing na... "uy, bati na

tayo...".





But don't overdo it. Kakapagod naman din na lagi

na lang manuyo o magsori (ouch). Choose the battles na

papatulan mo. The little issues, palampasin na.

Don't sweat the small stuff.




Daraan sa iba't-ibang stages ang love especially

pag matagal na kayo. Grow with it. Don't expect

him to be like nung una. 'Coz like a student, di na

ituturo sa grade 6 yung lessons na pang-grade 2.

Change WILL happen... you both will change and

your love WILL change too. It's up to you na lang if

the change will be for the better or for the worse.

Life is about growth. Grow with it.




When break up comes and it's time to say

goodbye, don't doubt the love just because it didn't

last. May mga bagay sa buhay na di man

nagtatagal, it doesn't mean di na ito totoo. Some

good things are just never meant to last forever.

Okay lang yon. Bless the parting and move on. (cno kaya natatamaan dito?)




Expect tears, sorrow, sleepless nights and pain.

Ika nga "it's when you hurt the worse that you love

the MOST." Kung di ka willing masaktan, wag ka

na lang magmahal.




Life is a balance. And love is both holding on and

letting go. Know when to fight for your man and

when to let him go. God will guide you kung anong

dapat gawin sa kung anong sitwasyon. So dapat

mataas ang signal ng langit sa cellfone ng puso

mo to know His wisdom.




Baduy Pero Astig Diba!!!






Dec 14, 2008

if i where a boy (reply)

If I were a boy
Even just for a day
I'd roll out of bed in the morning
And throw on what I wanted and go
Drink beer with the guys
And chase after girls
I'd kick it with who I wanted
And I'd never get confronted for it
Cause they'd stick up for me

If I were a boy
I think I could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I'd be a better man
I'd listen to her
Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted
Cause he's taking you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed


If I were a girl
Even just for a day
I'd get out of bed in the morning
And take forever to get ready
Complain to my friends
As if they got a man
They talk about you cause they're jealous
And I just stay and listen to it
(I should get rid of them)


If I were a girl
I don't think I'd understand
How it feels to love a boy
I swear I'd be a better woman
I'd listen to him
Cause I don't know everything
I would always try to tell him that he needs to treat me better
Like I don't gotta change at all

If I were a girl
It's a little too late for you to come back
Say it's just a mistake, think I'd forgive you like that?
(I don't)If you thought
I would wait for you,
You thought wrong (I did wrong)

But you're just a boy
And you're just a girl
You don't understand
No you don't understand
How it feels to love a girl someday
You wish you were a better man
You don't listen to her
And you don't listen to him
You don't care how it hurts
(you don't care how I feel)
Until you lose the one you wanted
Cause he's taking you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed


But you're just a boy

And you're just a girl

if i were a boy by beyonce(lyrics)

If I were a boy
Even just for a day
I’d roll outta bed in the morning
And throw on what I wanted then go
Drink beer with the guysAnd chase after girls
I’d kick it with who I wated
And I’d never get confronted for it.
Cause they’d stick up for me.

If I were a boy
I think I could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I’d be a better man.
I’d listen to her
Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted
Cause he’s taken you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed


If I were a boy
I could turn off my phone
Tell evveryone it’s broken
So they’d think that I was sleepin’ alone
I’d put myself first
And make the rules as I go
Cause I know that she’d be faithful
Waitin’ for me to come home (to come home)


It’s a little too late for you to come back
Say its just a mistake
Think I’d forgive you like that
If you thought I would wait for youYou thought wrong


But you’re just a boy
You don’t understand
Yeah you don’t understand
How it feels to love a girl someday
You wish you were a better man
You don’t listen to her
You don’t care how it hurts
Until you lose the one you wanted
Cause you’ve taken her for granted
And everything you have got destroyed


But you’re just a boy

Dec 13, 2008

mixed up

A windy afternoon a flash on my mind..

looking far away as if he was there watching. .
I’m all alone as I sitting down under my secret tree. The ambience was soothing..
I gazed up the sky watching the clouds that hovers the sun, and the sky so blue with the wind touches my face.
Oh.. what a beautiful feeling.. I surrounded by such beautiful flowers as they blown by great air.
The trees and bushes were green full of life.. the humming of birds that gave music to my ear.
Oh GOD thank you, life has is wonderful, your creation is so perfect. I stare, feel and hear your magnificent works oh God.
I can’t help, but to smile and i think I’m in paradise. ..
The moment was so perfect, the feeling of wellness I felt.
I glanced back but nobody was with me, I can’t share my happiness, I can’t share the experience I felt.
I only saw a shadow but it is only my own image.
The emptiness started to change the fullness of my heart; a silent cry I uttered then said..
I’m all alone.
Tears roll down.. I just let it dry by the softly blown wind..
I only imagine that if someone was there he already wiped my tears,
gives his shoulder to cry on with comforting words to share with,
but no one was there.
I was so silent, tired of thinking something.
the smile that traced out on my face before was turned out into an ugly pity appearance.
I stared for a long time on that angle hoping that he was standing and watching me.
I feel a little bit happy with that scene if ever it will gonna happen, but a cruel life I have.
I look up that area again and I saw a man holding a beautiful lady,
they were so sweet.. they made me jealous,
they are happy... they made me sad,
they laugh and converse aloud..they made me silent.
How sad the feeling I said, I cry sobbing with much tears,
I glanced back the picture was so true, it is not an imagination, its real..
they met on that area unaware that somebody was looking out,
it was me who patiently waiting for them, to see the clearer view how true the rumors was.
im so naive, meek ..im really sucks.


But now, I realize as I look them I already found myself,..I will never be mute and deaf again ..
even they walk away, I was still there on my spot thinking how sad my love story was.
I love him today but maybe not tomorrow..I love him but somebody deserves him and maybe we were destined to fall apart. Heavenly Father will send a right prince in the future..
I will never be with my shadow again ...but a partner hand in hand as we lay down the grasses and gaze up the sky ..
– I smile again trying to forget.. MY FIRST BROKEN HEART.
 
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