Remember

ALONE AGAIN....

Friends to lovers....
lovers to complete strangers...

alone..

im tired of this cycle..

let me twist the scene

friends to lovers...
lovers and still lovers till the end..

being together till the end of time...

what if not...?
ill be alone ..dreaming...

LOVE SICK

ROOM 143

Give me a placebo to my broken heart,
hoping you are here hugging me tight.
youre the cure to my every cells,
No need to have any medications nor even potent pills.
Kiss me so i can breathe,
dont need to inhale an artificial air.
my vital signs were unstable everytime i see you,
weird feelings but i wanted to be with you.
Staring on flat affect now that we were apart,
my neurons can't tell why you just turn your back.
im struggling between life and death,
when you starting to say your final words.
my congested heart wants to die,
as you speak your bloody goodbye.

I'm sick to be a patient of love.

Types of Love according to Sternberg (1988)

1. Nonlove: Like casual interactions with acquaintances

2. Liking: Intimacy is present but passion and commitment aren't.

3. Infatuation: Love at first sight

4. Empty Love: Commitment is present but no passion or intimacy.

5. Romantic Love: Passion & intimacy but no commitment.

6. Companionate Love: Mostly among older couples, passion is replaced by committed friendship.

7. Fatuous Love: Passion & commitment without intimacy (quickie marriage)

8. Consummate Love: full love with passion, intimacy and committment.

in which category/ries you belong?

Heart Broken

Everytime I looked at you My heart skips a beat. I wonder if you know, my love, that my heart is at your feet. I leave it there for you to do whatever that you wish. You could take my heart and love me Or just leave in this bliss

HEART EMERGENCY

Somethings in life have a very drastic effect on us, and sometimes our lives are never be the same after a turmoil relationships leave us empty and alone. the loss of the love of my life still hurts. Past memories keeps on haunting me..reminding me. like a resounding gong...i gave my heart to someone thinking that he will be responsible but he gave it back devastated.my heart was broken ..im bleeding to death..rescue me ..help me ..nurse me.

Define LOVE

Different definitions of LOVE

Love takes time. It needs a history of giving and receiving, laughingand crying...

Love never promises instant gratification, only ultimate fulfillment.

Love means believing in someone, in something. It supposes awillingness to struggle, to work, to suffer, and to rejoice.

Satisfaction and ultimate fulfillment are by-products of dedicatedlove. They belong only to those who can reach beyond themselves; to whom giving is more important than receiving.

Love is doing everything you can to help others build whatever dreams they have.

Love involves much careful and active listening. It is doing whatever needs to be done, and saving whatever will promote the other's happiness, security, and well-being.

Sometimes, love hurts.

Love is on a constant journey to what others need. It must be attentive, caring, and open, both to what others say and to what others cannot say...

Love says no with empathy and great compassion.

Love is firm, but when needed it must be tender.When others have tried and failed, love is the hand in yours in your moments of discouragement and disappointment.

Love is reliable.

Love is a choice and commitment to others' true and lasting happiness.It is dedicated to growth and fulfillment.

Love is not selfish.

Love sometimes fails for lack of wisdom or abundance of weakness, but itforgives, knowing the intentions are good.

Love does not attach conditions....

Genuine love is always a free gift.Love realizes and accepts that there will be disagreements anddisturbing emotions...There may be times when miles lay between, but love is a commitment. It believes and endures things.

Love encourages freedom of self.

Love shares positives and negatives reactions to warm and cold feelings.

Love, intimate love, will never reject others. It is the first to encourage and the last to condemn.

Love is a commitment to growth, happiness, and fulfillment of one another.

Love and be loved.

Seeking for the right one

" WHITE HEART "

can't you hear my heart?

the beat from its chambers

so naive...so dumb...

its you inside...

im struggling to find you

where are you?

my soulmate.....

Shakespeare Sonnet 116

Let me not to the marriage of true minds
Admit impediments. Love is not love
Which alters when it alteration finds,
Or bends with the remover to remove:
O no! it is an ever-fixed mark
That looks on tempests and is never shaken;
It is the star to every wandering bark,
Whose worth's unknown, although his height be taken.
Love's not Time's fool, though rosy lips and cheeks
Within his bending sickle's compass come:
Love alters not with his brief hours and weeks,
But bears it out even to the edge of doom.
If this be error and upon me proved,
I never writ,nor no man ever loved

Romantic relationship tips

if you want a romantic relationship, you better read these guys...

tips about romantic things to do to win her /his heart:

1. Watch the sunset together.
2. Whisper to each other.
3. Cook for each other.
4. Walk in the rain.
5. Hold hands
6. Buy gifts for each other.
7. Roses.
8. Find out their favorite cologne/perfume and wear it every time you're together.
9. Go for a long walk down the beach at midnight.
10. Write poetry for each other.
11. Hugs are the universal medicine.
12. Say I love you, only when you mean it and make sure they know you mean it.
13. Give random gifts of flowers/candy/poetry etc.
14. Tell her that she's the only girl you ever want. Don't lie!
15. Spend every second possible together.
16. Look into each other's eyes.
17. Very lightly push up her chin, look into her eyes, tell her you love her, and kiss her lightly.18. When in public, only flirt with each other.
19. Put love notes in their pockets when they aren't looking.
20. Buy her a ring.
21. Sing to each other.
22. Always hold her around her hips/sides.
23. Take her to dinner and do the dinner for two deal.
24. Spaghetti? (Ever see Lady and the Tramp?)
25. Hold her hand, stare into her eyes, kiss her hand and then put it over your heart.
26. Dance together.
27. I love the way a girl looks right after she's fallen asleep with her head in my lap.
28. Do cute things like write I love you in a note so that they have to look in a mirror to read it.
29. Make excuses to call them every 5 minutes
30. Even if you are really busy doing something, go out of your way to call and say I love you.
31. Call from your vacation spot to tell them you were thinking about them.
32. Remember your dreams and tell her about them.
34. Tell each other your most sacred secrets/fears.
35. Be Prince Charming to her parents.
36. Brush her hair out of her face for her.
37. Hang out with his/her friends.
38. Go to church/pray/worship together.
39. Take her to see a romantic movie and remember the parts she liked.
40. Learn from each other and don't make the same mistake twice.
41. Describe the joy you feel just to be with him/her.
42. Make sacrifices for each other.
43. Really love each other, or don't stay together.
44. Let there never be a second during any given day that you aren't thinking about them, and make sure they know it.
45. Love yourself before you love anyone else.
46. Learn to say sweet things in foreign languages.
47. Dedicate songs to them on the radio.
48. Fall asleep on the phone with each other.
49. Stand up for them when someone talks trash.
50. Never forget the kiss goodnight and always remember to say, "Sweet dreams."

A long distance Affairs

Here are some romantic ideas for long distance relationship


Instant Message each other everyday.
Write letters to each other. Attach photos or spray their favourite perfume on it.
Send them handmade calender with photos and markings of the special days to the both of you.
Talk to each other on web cam everyday.
Deliver their favourite food to them!
Send a package with a CD of the songs you listened to together the last time you were together. Send some of his or her favorite candy, and something memorable like a little stuffed toy.
Have flowers delivered to him/her.
Dedicate a webpage/blog to him/her while he/she is away.
Send your partner a cute love e card!
Write each other a Love Poem
Send romantic text messages to each other.
Leave voice memos for him/her while he /she is away and send it to him/her.
Have a Web Cam date where you can have dinner/play games/watch movies together.
Share pictures of your daily life together with him/her.
Make a count down calender and give it to him.her before he/she goes away.
Play online games together.
Last but not least, if you miss him.her too much, show up at his.her doorstep and it'll cure all signs of lovesickness!

What We Are Made Of

Choose Love

Love is often presented as the opposite of fear, but true love is not opposite anything. True love is far more powerful than any negative emotions, as it is the environment in which all things arise. Negative emotions are like sharks swimming in the ocean of love. All things beautiful and fearful, ugly and kind, powerful and small, come into existence, do their thing, and disappear within the context of this great ocean. At the same time, they are made of the very love in which they swim and can never be separated. We are made of this love and live our whole lives at one with it, whether we know it or not. It is only the illusion that we are separate from this great love that causes us to believe that choosing anything other than love makes sense or is even possible. In the relative, dualistic world of positive and negative, darkness and light, male and female, we make choices and we learn from them. This is exactly what we are meant to be doing here on earth. Underlying these relative choices, though, is the choice to be conscious of what we are, which is love, or to be unconscious of it. When we choose to be conscious of it, we choose love. We will still exist in the relative world of opposites and choices and cause and effect, and we will need to make our way here, but doing so with an awareness that we are all made of this love will enable us to be more playful, more joyful, more loving and wise, as we make our way. Ultimately, the choices we make will shed light on the love that makes us all one, enabling those who have forgotten to return to the source. This world makes it easy to forget this great love, which is part of why we are here. We are here to remember and, when we forget to remember again, to choose love.